2021.09.27 02:45 TourBig643 Help me think of a cleansing process for social validation seeking and masking
My mental bandwidth depends on it🙏
At 24 I bought earplugs, noise canceling headphones, sunglasses,
when I’m at home or at work break room I turn the light off and sit in dark quiet
It’s causing chronic headaches that I can’t get away from.
The key is I don’t want to regress but I want to take a break from masking and give up validation seeking for good.
Let’s all have a discussion☺️
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2021.09.27 02:45 AutoNewspaperAdmin [JP] - Nishi the cat is not clowning around when it comes to being a cutie | The Japan Times
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2021.09.27 02:45 blackjack_783 I went to the mall today to pick up a model kit at my favorite store and checked out the cards and I picked up Kitchen Dragonmaid for 25 and Alchemic Magician for 7
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2021.09.27 02:45 YOW-Weather-Records For only the 5th time in recorded history, Charlottetown had more than 390mm of precipitation during a summer (summer 2021).
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2021.09.27 02:45 cperry18 I (24F) holding a grudge against my (26M) husband and I'm feeling like I'm the irrational one.
So a little backstory , this might be lengthy. I am a 24 year old female, and I've been with my husband for over 7 years and we've been married for almost a year. We've lived together for 6 years so definitely lots of time together.
In mid to early February of this year (2021) he signed up for a deployment without consulting me much first. Giving me maybe a month or month and a half to mentally prepare for him to be gone for almost a whole year. Two days after he deployed I found out I was pregnant with our first child. So as you can imagine I'm now 7 months pregnant and he's still overseas.
This isn't our first deployment together because in 2017 he also left for a whole year. But here's where I start to hold the grudges. He constantly gives out money to his family (who is awful with finances). In 2017 he gave his youngest brother a few thousand dollars for a car, and we never saw the money again. Okay, no big deal we weren't married at the time so I try to let it slide off my back. Well here we are in 2021, another deployment and a baby on the way and he gives his other brother $3,000 behind my back. Before we got married i specifically told him that finances are a big deal to me and anything involving money needs to be discussed with me, his wife.
He gave his brother this $3,000 because he was behind on MAYBE 2 months of bills if that. But not even 2 weeks after getting the money him, his wife (who hasn't had a job the whole time they've been together), and 2 kids are going to the beach, eating out, adopting animals, and doing other things people struggling to pay bills wouldn't be doing. Also his brother hasn't been able to hold down the same job and no one but my husband will give him money because he's bad about not paying people back. Also would like to add that his brother has done nothing but treat the family bad and exclude everyone because of his wife. But magically comes around when he needs money.
After I found all this out, I've held a serious grudge and resentment towards my husband. I feel so betrayed and hurt. I don't feel like an equal in this marriage anymore, I don't even really feel like a wife. It's like I got the title but none of the respect. My whole world feels like it's stopped since he left, and neither his brother or his wife have cared a single bit about him, me, or their nephew. I'm having a hard time getting over the recent events and accepting the loss. I'm scared that this pain and these feelings may result in ruining my marriage. I've given all I can, but I'm also now so mentally worn down from losing my job, my husband betraying my trust, and doing a whole pregnancy by myself.
In a nutshell everytime I try to bring this up to my husband he just gets angry and ignores me. Its hard to discuss this with someone who's 6,000 miles away and can easily just shut off their phone and ignore me. I try to say my emotions are from pregnancy but I also believe that beyond the pregnancy I truly and deeply am hurt.
What do I do now? I don't want to give up on him or our marriage. Everyone I talk to is prejudice and tells me to divorce him but I want to fix us and be together for our son.
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2021.09.27 02:45 Ninten_Draw Song is Stranger - by lord Huron (that is the actual name)
2021.09.27 02:45 lil_kneezzz The crowd goes nuts for Drain
2021.09.27 02:45 mclain15 NBD Marlin 6 Dnister Black
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2021.09.27 02:45 CindyDouglass How reliable a news source is MyrtleBeachSC News? FBI now investigating SLED over Murdaugh case?
" Sources inside the State House (in Columbia, S.C.) confirmed yesterday that the FBI has been called in to investigate SLED in regards to the Murdaugh saga making national headlines daily.
Those same Columbia elected sources state that SLED Chief Mark Keel will likely be asked to step down." https://myrtlebeachsc.com/state-sources-fbi-investigating-sled-keel-likely-to-step-down/
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2021.09.27 02:45 ogdankmaster840 Plenty of room on the free carry train
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2021.09.27 02:45 bakonydraco AP Poll Voter Consistency - Week 5
2021.09.27 02:45 gradymegalania Mother Jaguar and Her Cubs Are "Rewilded" in the Republic of Argentina
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2021.09.27 02:45 cuteanddead 10,000 sub!
We hit 10,000 subs yesterday! I’m so glad this sub is growing and more people are here joining in the discussion. I posted this a while back, but the milestone seems like a great time to ask again: what type of content do you want to see in this sub? What would be helpful or interesting to you?
Also a little reminder that we do have user flair on this sub that is fully editable! I love seeing where you guys are from, or just your funny quips.
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2021.09.27 02:45 ChemBioJ Imagine zooming around on this thing
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2021.09.27 02:45 FuntimeFreddyfan87 Remade my bisex male preference flag
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2021.09.27 02:45 bruhhhhhhhhhh5 Is it ok to completely soak your dreadlocks with water everyday in the shower?
2021.09.27 02:45 harri3jr I would’ve never guessed tonight was a PPV
2021.09.27 02:45 My_name_is_Bot Upper East Side Got Millions In NYC's 2022 Budget: Here's Where - Patch.com
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2021.09.27 02:45 TheRealLardin "Don´t Stop Me Now" - Queen (Guitar Solo Cover)
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2021.09.27 02:45 Shaxel1 squid game in roblox
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2021.09.27 02:45 jt30799 First time grower here, here are my first pink oysters on their second day of fruiting! [general]
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2021.09.27 02:45 Scoop500 3 year old mini keeps eating grass?
My three year old mini poodle Teddy keeps eating most of his food but leaving a little bit at the end and then going outside, eating grass, and vomiting. He’s never been good at finishing his food (we also have an older mini poodle who literally licks his bowl of the same food so we don’t know why) but recently he’s been eating a lot of grass and it makes him sick. Anyone know why?
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2021.09.27 02:45 mmomothz Finished this one today!
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2021.09.27 02:45 block0PPsyshi The Old Gunslinger - Who Lives for the Perfect Shot
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2021.09.27 02:45 Toasterconsumption (Ds3) (PS4) ( Summon me)